Table Of Contents

Special Report #1: What Tantra Can Do For YOU
Special Report #2: Make Love Not War With Yourself
Special Report #3: Put Your Pleasure Where You Deserve It - First!
Special Report #4: Passionate Intimacy
Special Report #5: Making The Best In Life (Sex) Even Better
Special Report #6: Tantric Orgasm: The Ecstasy Of Prolonged Peak Pleasure
Special Report #7: How To Use The Healing Power Of Sexual Play
Special Report #8: Learn To Play Your Inner Flute & Prevent An Energy Crisis
Special Report #9: How Can Something Like Sex Be Sacred?
Special Report #10: Transforming Your Life With Tantric Love

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Special Report #2: Make Love Not War With Yourself

Welcome to the second chapter of Tantra At Tahoe's Special Report, the "Top Ten Tantric Secrets Of Sex, Love, & Intimacy." This edition is about one of the foundations of a Tantric approach to life and love - completely accepting your natural self.

"Just trust yourself. Then you will know how to live."
Goethe

Making Love Created The Universe

The earliest Tantras are writings in ancient Indian books over two thousand years old which describe secret sexual rituals, disciplines, and meditations. These esoteric Hindu texts were written in the form of a dialogue between the god Shiva and his consort, Shakti.

Today, Tantrikas revere Shiva as the pure embodiment of the masculine force culminating in the penetrating power of cosmic consciousness, and Shakti as the feminine principle embodying pure creative energy.

This isn't worship of supreme beings as in other religions. Rather, it's our way of honoring the forces of nature that exist within all of us. We simply use Shiva and Shakti as convenient symbols to honor our inner male or female regardless of our biological gender.

Ancient Hindus believed the world came about by uniting spiritually and sexually with Shiva. This erotic love creation-myth certainly builds different core values than the Adam and Eve story that most of us learned as kids.

This is just one example of Tantra's pragmatic non-dogmatic approach to living. We borrow myths, principles, and rituals from other disciplines that help our inner beings grow. But we don't use them to judge, grade, or police our behavior.

Raise Consciousness

Tantra is just a natural approach to experiencing each moment completely. The heart and soul of Tantra is raising consciousness.

We do this by heightening our five senses - sight, smell, taste, touch, and hearing. We become dedicated to enjoying the physical fully by reveling in eating, drinking, massaging, dancing, and making love.

So many people are swept through life looking at pictures in the mind instead of living moment to moment. They spend their consciousness by dwelling on the past, plotting the future, and comparing the current state of affairs to a set of pre-recorded subconscious tapes.

To counteract the programming that keeps us distracted, Tantra teaches us to focus our attention on the present. Tantra shows us how to exist in this moment, become totally absorbed in the "now," and open our inner windows to the world fully.

This whole approach to life suggests we should just give up goal orientation, enter each experience without expectations, and just live fully in each moment.

A vital Tantric way to increase your awareness is through meditation. Sitting and clearing the mind, though, is challenging for most Westerners. Fortunately, Osho developed several active meditations that teach us to settle into the moment using breath, visualization, dance, and music. You can buy these CD's at...

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Know Your Natural Self

Tantra is about knowing yourself.

In Tantra, complete honesty and authenticity about our own truth is essential for spiritual growth. We learn to observe ourselves, accept the wisdom of our heart, and shine bright light on our inner knowing. This kind of spiritual evolution can only lead each of us to a clearer idea of our deeper selves - who we really are.

• If we get to know ourselves better, will the truth really set us free?
• What will we find underneath all those layers of old baggage hiding the real inner self?
• Will we like who we finally see?

Tantra believes that our essential make-up is love and that our true nature is blissful. Inside each of us is a spontaneous, joyous, playful, childlike spirit who wants to be free to savor everything and love everyone. We're artistic, creative, powerful. and fundamentally sexual beings.

Just Accept It, Baby

Tantra welcomes all aspects of life, whether frowned upon by society or not. It accepts everything and forbids nothing. Tantra says YES! to life.

You won't find moral judgments here about right and wrong or good and bad. We recognize that judgments like good and bad are based on artificial yardsticks held fast in our subconscious minds.

To cast off these tired unwanted beliefs, we learn to live in harmony with whatever life serves up, whether on a silver platter or bed of thorns. We have to learn to accept constant change and major in surrender - just letting things happen of their own accord without resistance.

We've given up the intoxicating illusion that we can control the outside world.

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Make Love Not War - With Yourself

Tantra teaches us to embrace all parts of ourselves and everything that befalls us. We don't fight, resist, or reject things. Tantra says if we suppress our natural inner forces, the internal warfare will simply cause them to fester and insinuate their way to the surface in an unhealthy manner.

Instead, we release all these stresses as a useless struggle with no winners, only losers. We let go of the futile attempt to stop things that are happening from happening.

Maybe that's what Paul McCartney was singing about in "Let It Be."

• If we don't buy other's moral codes that conflict us, what's there to hide?
• If there's no good and bad, why not just drop guilt?
• If there's no right or wrong, why not release all shame?
• If everything in life is divine, what's there to fear?
• If God is love, why can't we experience heaven on earth?

To begin the Tantric path, you simply accept yourself and show gratitude for all you receive.

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You see why Tantra doesn't establish dogma, rules, or behavioral codes? How could we follow prescribed patterns if we're responding to life genuinely in every unique moment? All we can do is risk, explore, observe, listen, and notice. We simply choose what brings us joy and growth and leaving the rest behind.

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Your next installment of this Special Report is about one of your most prized possessions, your body, and all the pleasure it's designed to bring you.

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Special Report #3: Put Your Pleasure Where You Deserve It - First!

As promised, here is the third edition of Tantra At Tahoe's Special Report, the "Top Ten Tantric Secrets Of Sex, Love, & Intimacy." Now we get to focus on loving your body and all the pleasure it can bring you if you learn to appreciate fully.

"Tantra says accept whatsoever you are…and only through total acceptance can you grow. Then use every energy you have."
Osho

The Body Temple

The key to joyous living is first loving ourselves.

This begins with an exceedingly difficult assignment, accepting our bodies the way they are now. Here's another great example of Tantra's novel approach to life. The media and mass consciousness, having created the vision of the perfect form, encourages us to fill ourselves full of negative judgments about our anatomy. Tantrikas choose not to fall for these false standards, instead cherishing our bodies as the temples of our souls.

“I have not encountered another temple as blissful as my own body.”
Saraho Doha

In contrast to religions that view the pleasures of the flesh as degraded or evil, Tantra recognizes that our physical vehicles are a divine gift. These shells house our spirit and let our inner beings experience the sights, sounds, and smells of the physical world. Regardless of their size, shape, or color, our bodies deserve our unconditional love and affection just for letting us delight in all these delicious sensations. Further, they help us think, communicate, move, and act.

Don't you think life would be much duller if you were a disembodied spirit? Face it, sex wouldn't be much fun at all without a body.

So Tantrikas honor their bodies. That includes looking after them, feeding them properly, and exercising them. We believe one path to God is by loving these physical gifts and cherishing all they experience.

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Pleasure First

Tantrikas believe in enjoying life to the fullest. Deferred gratification isn't part of the mindset. Be good, earn your ticket to heaven, and you'll be rewarded in the next life just doesn't fit in.

“Life grows through enjoyment.”
Osho

Tantra is the true art of living where pleasure NOW becomes the central driving force in each moment. Which is why for most of us, embracing the Tantric path requires a shift in priorities. We have to put pleasure first and make space in our busy lives to appreciate, enjoy, and be happy.

This isn't as easy as it sounds. It requires more than just reserving playtime in our stuffed calendars. We've got to learn to pursue, cultivate, and surrender to ecstasy with gusto. Just when we start feeling good, many of us are conditioned to feel we're being selfish, having too much fun, or don't deserve it. We've got to unlearn the guilt and resistance that's bred into us.

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We need to learn deep inside that pleasure is our birthright.

We start by recognizing that we're each totally responsible for our own pleasure. It's not up to our mate, our boss, or the weather.

Pleasure Is A Discipline, Really!

We employ the bedrock of Tantra, practicing pleasure. Yes, we must increase our capacity to enjoy. We begin to cultivate feeling good by fully opening our senses and flooding them with stimuli. We learn to accept more and more sensation and value it highly. We continue by savoring the excitement it brings.

That's why our teacher, Margot Anand, is so fond of saying "pleasure is a discipline."

Now can you see where sex fits into the Tantric scheme of things as the biggest teacher and fuel for transformation? Learning the full appreciation of sex teaches us to delight in our bodies and welcome pleasure.

Engaging in uninhibited sex requires growth from all of us who've grown up in the modern world. We carry more moralizing, shame, guilt, and anxiety into the bedroom than anywhere else in our lives. If we learn to fully embrace sexual pleasure, we embody the ideals of a Tantric life, namely accepting, enjoying, and appreciating.

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If you can become fully natural and spontaneous with sensual play, then you can probably do it with any of life's forces. That's why eroticism played such a fundamental role in ancient Tantra's 64 Arts.

Celebrate & Enjoy, You Deserve It!

Tantrikas celebrate sexuality above all else.

Through conscious practice, Tantrikas become better lovers. Our experience deepens and opens new levels of intimate communion. We heal our wounds, lose our inhibitions, and release our inner blocks by seeking higher and higher states of ecstasy. Our erections become stronger, we make love longer, and we experience bigger and better prolonged orgasms.

The Tantric path employs sensuality and erotic play to expand consciousness through the transformative power of orgasmic energy. Tantrikas deliberately induce altered states of ecstasy to create a mystical experience of transcendental oneness with the universe.

We figure, why not enjoy ourselves while we're evolving?

As we'll cover in future installments of this Special Report, Tantric Sex is more about swimming in the energy than fighting upstream. It's more about floating in an extended state of pleasure than maneuvering towards the goal of orgasm. It's much slower, more sensitive, more awake, more intuitive, more synchronized than the classic "wham bam, thank you, ma'am" porno scene.

Breathlessly Awaiting Email

What's the doorway to the most powerful peak experience you can imagine? Intimacy. The ability to be open, vulnerable, and fully "seen." So next we'll dive into Passionate Intimacy, Dhyan Jeffre's specialty and the theme of her new book, Intimacy: A Green Light for Red Hot Sex & a Lifetime of Loving. If you can't wait, click on

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Special Report #4: Passionate Intimacy

Welcome to the fourth installment of Tantra At Tahoe's Special Report, the "Top Ten Tantric Secrets Of Sex, Love, & Intimacy." This chapter is dedicated to Passionate Intimacy, the current of juicy love communion that runs deep in all of us.

"Love is the fragrance that proves that the one-thousand-petalled lotus in the innermost core of your being has bloomed..."
OSHO

Is That All There Is For The Rest Of My Life?

• You've made love with your partner in 26 positions, in a hundred different venues. Now what?

• Do you feel bored when making love to your partner?

• Have you ever desired something new in bed but were afraid to ask?

• Have you just run out of ideas to add novelty to your sex life?

We, as a society, are so tuned in to finding our adrenaline rush outside of ourselves. We seek out bungee jumping, roller coaster riding, parachuting, driving fast, or living dangerously to give us that thrill of living on the edge.

When we are young, we may even live our sex lives this way. New conquests, new pleasures, new exotic positions, we're always reaching for the novel experience to continue that high feeling, that rush of pleasure, of passion.

The time comes, you fall in love. You decide to move into a committed relationship, with marriage or not. A few months, years or decades later, you realize you're in a big rut.

"Been there, done that" seems to pervade your sex life and you wonder, "Is that all there is?"

Leap Into A Life Of Passion

You can have it all.

You can find yourself spending your work day thinking about having sex with your beloved. You can thrill again at the first touch of your lover. Yes, you can crave doing it again and again and again.

With Tantra, sex feels so fantastic when you learn to move out of your mind and into your body, fully. Your body becomes ecstatic when it gets in tune with your spirit.

When you embark on the Tantric path of relationship, you challenge yourself to grow emotionally and evolve spiritually. You and your partner begin a journey to an intense depth of intimacy and sex you never dreamed of.

You leap into a life of passion.

Time To Let Go

There is a complete universe within your being. Tapping into the energy of that internal world and extending it into all aspects of your life is what Passionate Intimacy is all about.

Passion is a way of living.

Passion is any emotion felt with intensity. It can be positive or negative. We often choke ourselves off from our feelings because of learnings from parents, society, fear of feeling bad and our own rigid rules about the way we should be.

The essential elements of passion are...
• promoting fun and excitement,
• choosing novelty,
• challenging yourself,
• exploring new ideas and activities,
• using all your senses,
• risking beyond your comfort zone,
• thinking youthfully, and
• being playful and laughing a lot.

This is the time of your life to let go and feel intensely.

Do something every day that gets your juices going, gets that adrenaline pumping. Passion in all areas of your life means passion in your lovemaking, too. When you combine passion with intimacy, you have a dynamite combination.

What Is Intimacy Anyway?

Intimacy is the communion between two people who have the strength and willingness to be completely honest with one another. "I'll show you me and you show me you."

You can phonetically spell Intimacy: In to Me (You) See. Intimacy is the opposite of game playing, but it promotes playing at the most powerful level of relationship and sex possible.

Emotional intimacy is the ability of the "real" you to be in touch with your "real" partner. This is the telling of your truth, in the moment. This means allowing your partner to see into you and vice versa.

For intimacy to happen, each of you must feel emotionally strong, courageous and safe. It takes time and a lot of risking to build the trust necessary to open to deeper and deeper levels of who you are with your partner.

You're Both Moving Targets

Because you're changing all the time, you are literally a new person in every moment, as is your partner. Your cells are changing. Your mind is changing. Your beliefs are changing.

When you are communicating regularly about these changing thoughts and feelings, you are relating new information about your new being. You, quite literally, re-create yourself anew everyday. When you do this with conscious intention, the process is not only faster, but more dramatic.

Your partner too is changing and listening to your changes through new ears and eyes. When you and your lover adjust your perceptions to looking inward, to looking for subtle nuances instead of sledge hammers, you are experiencing newness from within in contrast to novelty in the outside word. That is the internal universe mentioned earlier.

This process of conscious attention creates the stage for eternal novelty in your love life, your sensations and in your lovemaking.

Read A Book, Change Your Life Forever

We can show you how to do just this. This attitude and perceptual shift of Passionate Intimacy can come about using the tools of Tantra and those of modern psychology. Dhyan Jeffre clearly spells out the path for couples in her new book, "Intimacy, A Green Light for Red Hot Sex and A Lifetime of Loving."

This entire playbook is about the relationship of intimacy, love, and sex. It's about the interplay of physical and emotional intimacy. Ultimately, you can't separate them because they're united within each human being.

We all express our love and playfulness through sex because it's our nature. We are very sexual beings. Our sexuality is at the root of who we are.

Because we don't want you to "work" on your relationship, this new volume isn't a workbook, it's a playbook. Yes, it's a complete step-by-step program of exercises to build passion and intimacy. But since the Tantric way of life and love are great fun, Intimacy gives you enjoyable tools, not arduous exercises.

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Play, Play, Play. Doesn't Anybody Work Around Here?

To incorporate the secrets of Tantric intimacy into your love life, you and your partner need to complete the exercises in Jeffre's playbook. They focus on closeness, communion, and sexual communion in ways you've never dreamed of. Because relationships aren't always easy and require deep personal growth, many of these practices are demanding, challenging, and unsettling.

But never fear. Dhyan Jeffre's book is the perfect format for long distance coaching because each chapter is a separate topic with related practices designed to enhance relationship skills and your sex life at the same time.

Dhyan Jeffre will guide you through the common pitfalls of building lifelong passionate intimacy in her two-session personalized telephone consultation, Passionate Intimacy Essentials. Using the essentials of Tantra, she'll steer you through the labyrinth of merging sex, heart, and spirit and give you exciting homeplay assignments to put Passionate Intimacy to work now. There's no better way to kick-start the blooming of your love and affection.

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You Won't Believe What's Just Around The Corner

We can't have made it to the fourth installment of the "Top Ten Tantric Secrets" without referring to sex a lot. But next up is the complete picture of what the thrilling promise of Tantric Sex is all about.

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Special Report #5: Making The Best In Life (Sex) Even Better

Here's the fifth chapter of Tantra At Tahoe's Special Report, the "Top Ten Tantric Secrets Of Sex, Love, & Intimacy." We're going to focus on a subject near and dear to all of us, Tantric sex.

"Sex must not remain sex; that is the Tantra teaching. It must be transformed into love. And love also must not remain love. It must be transformed into light, into meditative experience, into the last, ultimate, mystic peak."
Osho

What is Tantric Sex?

You've heard us extol the virtues of sex as a spiritual practice, healing mind, body, spirit, and emotions. There's lots more to come on these topics in later editions. You already know that we're big on using sexual pleasure to transform life.

But what do we mean when we talk about sex? Do we mean kissing? Yes. Do we mean petting? Yes. Do we mean intercourse? Yes.

We're talking about whatever gets your juices flowing inside and out. Eye contact, sensuous massage, oral pleasure, genital union - they all work if they turn you on.

Well, then it sounds like Tantric Sex is no different than the dating habits of the average horny North American teenager. No, there are some major differences.

So How Do I Do It?

First of all, in Tantra, S.E.X., means Subtle Energy eXchange. Tantric sex is any touching, moving, or interchanging that connects each lovers' inner vibrations. If you're both in the grip of wild animal lust humping in complete harmony, then you're exchanging energy.

But most often Tantric sex is slow, spontaneous, and conscious. It's open, intimate, and mutual. It more closely resembles a team sport like football or basketball than individual effort like gymnastics or sprint swimming.

Are you getting the idea that we operate on a different plane than just the genital friction of intercourse?

In Tantra, we explore erotic play fully and comprehensively, immersing ourselves in it fully just like we do with every other part of life. But Tantric Sex is more an art than a science. Though Tantrikas become highly skilled lovers, Tantra is not directly about sexual techniques.

Forget Orgasm & Get Blown Away

Tantric love play is more meditation than sexual athletics.

Typical modern lovemaking starts with a quick build up and ends with an equally quick release of sexual tension. Not so in Tantra. Tantric Sex uses the same body parts and physical actions, but unfolds much differently than the average quickie hurtling downhill to explosive release.

There is no goal in Tantric Sex, only the present moment of perfect and harmonious union. Tantric love play is all about feeling pleasure intensely for as long as possible, nothing more and nothing less. It's about building, containing, and circulating energy, not losing it.

We follow no agenda, set pattern, or programmed stages of foreplay and penetration. We don't rush through the preliminaries to get to the main act. We don't judge success in the sack by making ourselves or our partner climax. Since we have no goal of giving or receiving orgasm, anything may happen as the mood strikes the lovers.

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Speak Up And Enjoy!

Because Tantrikas enter into sacred sex without expectations, performance anxiety disappears. Are you familiar with that common mental refrain "Am I doing it right?" or the verbal one, "Did you come yet?"

When sex becomes a conscious dance of energies, any mystery about what's happening with your partner disappears. If you can picture synchronized swimming with telepathic communication, you'll get some sense of what Tantric sex looks like.

Tantric lovers know that they're each responsible for their own pleasure. They recognize that erotic experiences begin within. They know what they like, what they prefer in the moment, and what to pass on each encounter. They ask for what they want, voice their reactions, and give lots of feedback. And they do it in a way that enhances intimacy and contributes to the sensual mood.

Obviously, this kind of authentic interplay requires knowing, accepting, and loving yourself fully first. Then you can be scrupulously honest, totally real, and refreshingly transparent with your innermost desires. Which leads to knowing, accepting, and loving your beloved.

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The Many Faces Of Tantric Sex

Now, don't worry that you're doing it wrong. Since sex to Tantrikas is Subtle Energy eXchange, anything that gets both of your motors running is encouraged. That's different for everyone and changes from time to time.

In our view, any consenting sex is good sex. That includes sensuous massage or sharing fantasies. It could be a romantic melting hug or hours of erotic massage. It could be whispering sweet everythings in your lover's ear or talking dirty. It could mean sucking face, sucking toes, and sucking anything else your mouth is drawn to. And where intercourse is concerned, it includes quickies and longies.

So let's drop all the baggage that accompanies the word sex, and simply call it Tantric Love Play instead.

What Is Tantric Love Play?

"Remember, if you smoke after sex you're doing it too fast." Woody Allen

Tantric Love Play is more like sensuously sipping an expensive Cabernet than chugging a six-pack of brew. It more resembles sampling the delicacies at a gourmet buffet than inhaling a pepperoni pizza during Monday Night Football. It's certainly more like a twilight stroll through a perfumed garden during Spring with your beloved on your arm than running a hundred-yard dash.

Tantric Love Play is leisurely, savoring every delicious morsel of pleasure, instead of rushing headlong towards maximum turn-on now. Tantric lovers move so slowly, stopping frequently to settle deeply into the rising tide of pleasure, stretching the experience out as long as possible.

Releasing tension and giving in to the urge to climax gets replaced with continuous streaming vibrations of ecstatic energy. When we enter the altered state of consciousness that comes with orgasm after orgasm, we simply want to float upon a cloud of bliss together.

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What You Learn From Watching

Watching us making love looks nothing like an athletic porno flick encounter. Yes, we breathe, moan, and writhe dramatically. But I'm talking about the changes of rhythm more than anything.

We stroke a few times and then stop, letting the spasms wash through us. We thrust a few times more and then lay still for a moment vibrating all over. We adjust our position and squeal with delight at the newfound joy.

Honestly, we never know what we'll want to do or what's going to happen. It's just different each time and keeps getting better and better. Let us initiate you into the joys of Tantric Love Play and you'll see what we mean. But we have to warn you, once you start on this ecstatic path, you won't want to go back to normal sex very often.

You Can't Wait For What's Next?

We hope you got a resounding glimpse into the celestial dimensions of sacred sexuality from this message. If you thought Tantric Love Play sounded irresistible, just wait until you read the next chapter about Tantric Orgasm.

Yes, we realize we've just tried to convince you to drop orgasm as a sexual goal. But Tantric Orgasm is not what you think. Interested in learning about multiple orgasmic peaks, higher and higher plateaus of pleasure, and prolonged life-altering ecstasy?

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to learn how we teach these tremendous secrets.

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Special Report #6: Tantric Orgasm: The Ecstasy Of Prolonged Peak Pleasure

Congratulations! You've arrived at the sixth installment of Tantra At Tahoe's Special Report, the "Top Ten Tantric Secrets Of Sex, Love, & Intimacy." And look out, we're going to completely transform your concept of orgasm.

"Orgasm is a state where the body is no more felt as matter; it vibrates like electricity...just energy waves; you become a dancing energy vibrating... when the body loses boundaries, when the body becomes like a vaporous thing, when the body evaporates substantially and only energy is left, a very subtle rhythm." -Osho

A Day In The Life

According to those who've study sex scientifically like Masters & Johnson, the average orgasm lasts 10 to 15 seconds. If you have one three times a week for 50 years, you can easily calculate the total time of orgasm throughout your life. It comes to around 20 hours, in other words, less than one day.

Just consider how much the pursuit of this one day influences our lives.

If climaxing is so good, why don't we make it a bigger priority, do it more often, and learn to make it last longer?

• Because sex is a taboo subject and the object of tension in relationships.

• Because we lack skill in lovemaking and communication.

• Because male orgasm is most often genital energy release after which guys aren't much interested any more.

• Because untrained and unassertive women just tend to give up.

Enter the ultimate solution, Tantric Orgasm.

The Ecstasy Of Prolonged Peak Pleasure

We all build up sexual tension in our bodies. Untrained lovers treat sex as a way to relieve this pressure and blow off steam in a few-second flash of pleasure. There's nothing wrong with a hot quickie now and then. But, explosive orgasm, especially when men ejaculate too soon, often drains lovers of their vital essence.

A typical non-Tantric orgasm is more like a little sneeze than record-setting fireworks moving heaven and earth.

When you learn the ancient sexual secrets, orgasm in Tantra becomes a vastly different experience. Tantrikas cultivate the ecstatic response, which you might call the inner nervous system climax.

A Tantric Orgasm is an experience of prolonged peak pleasure in which your whole body vibrates with wave after wave of intense ardor. We shake all over, engulfed in surge after surge of pure liquid fire.

Protect The Environment - Recycle Sexual Energy

We achieve this by recycling sexual energy, not expelling it. We conserve and channel orgasmic energy within, and instead of discharging, the energy expands inward, flooding the entire body with pulsing orgasmic contractions and continuous wavelike vibrations.

These streams of ecstasy from Tantric Orgasm can go on and on and higher and higher. In fact, many Tantric practitioners can generate and flow this delicious energy without sexual stimulation.

Admittedly this takes some training which is why Tantra is all about sacred sexual practice. Is creating the ultimate pleasure worth some delightful exercises now and then? You betcha. Once you acquire the knack, you'll never settle for "normal sex" again.

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If Inner Tennis, Why Not Inner Orgasm?

As Nik Douglas writes in Sexual Secrets...

"The main principle of sexual rejuvenation is to circulate rather than expend sexual energy."

If you're a man, when you learn to channel sexual energy away from your genitals, you can separate ejaculation from orgasm. Your arousal can still become irresistible and you can still have those powerful pelvic muscle contractions that feel so wonderful.

That's what causes a dry orgasm, a long series of slow pleasurable spasms without ejaculating and with a rush of energy. Instead of exploding, you pump the energy back inside and circulate it again and again. We call these "implosive orgasms." Women delight in imploding instead of exploding as well.

When orgasmic energy streams throughout the body, it's as if every cell is coming. Yes, you feel the same ecstatic experience everywhere. Whole-body orgasm is high on our private list of Tantric delights.

Like One, Why Not Try A Dozen?

From one-third to three-quarters of men often climax too rapidly. Though there are many ways to overcome premature ejaculation, the vast majority are non-Tantric, teaching control. Control produces tension which restricts the flow of sexual energy, the basis of Tantric Orgasm.

The Tantric approach is to learn to relax and move orgasmic energy away from the genitals. How do you learn to spread sexual energy elsewhere in your body? Somraj's personal story in his new email book Ultimate Premature Ejaculation Mastery answers that question once and for all. If you or your partner is interested in the ultimate solution for premature ejaculation, get your copy now at

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Some ancient sexual disciplines prohibit ejaculatory orgasm in men for health reasons. Others prescribe frequency of squirting for men based on age and physical condition. Somraj goes into all of this in his book.

Tantra, being a lifestyle of relaxing and accepting, doesn't impose rules and regulations like this. You can come and come and come if that's what you want, or learn Tantric Orgasm and have intense pleasure for as long as you choose.

The good news about a dry Tantric Orgasm is that most men find their excitement reduced afterwards, allowing them to go on and on. You can reach peak after peak, going higher and higher. Believe us when we say, try multiple orgasms, you'll like them.

If you're ready to try it now, sign-up for a Multiple Tantric Orgasm Response with Ecstasy sessions by clicking on

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Women Do It Too, And Better!

You might have noticed that men and women are different. So are their orgasms.

Masters and Johnson believed that women only reach orgasm through clitoral stimulation. As much as we love to teach lovers to titillate this delightful sexual bud, our experience is much different.

Our teacher, Margot Anand, is fond of saying...
"There as many kinds of orgasms as there are stars in the sky."

Women can climax from all kinds of genital as well as non-genital stimulation such as love, tenderness, and ecstatic energy. Most women can easily experience multiple orgasms. Many are capable of spreading sexual energy naturally and have full-body orgasms.

The orgasmic experience for women more closely resembles a valley than a peak. Men surge high and crash. Women rise to a mountain high and then float there. With training in Tantric Orgasm, women can experience extended, repeated, multiple orgasms of all kinds at will.

Where Is The Sacred Goddess Within?

Which raises the whole issue of the purported G-spot. Back in the 50s, the German physician Graffenberg wrote about the sensitivity of the upper wall of the vagina. The media hyped his scientific observations and popularized the term "spot." Too many men drive themselves crazy to pinpoint the exact location while others don't know where to look.

The truth of the matter is that it's not an exact spot. And it moves!

For many women, it's the most powerful orgasmic trigger. And for the fortunate but growing few, it's the doorway to what for many women is the most ecstatic of orgasmic experiences: female ejaculation. (No it's not peeing, it's a sacred Tantric delight.)

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What's Up Next, Pussy Cat?

Now can you appreciate why we're so dedicated to Tantra? Why we spend our retirement sharing the ancient secrets with so many others like you? Why we've reshaped our lives around pleasure, ecstasy, and Tantric Orgasm?

Our Tantric Orgasm page at

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Your next Special Report installment is almost on its way. Before we sink deeper into the realm of sacred sexual energy, we need to explore sexual problems, sexual healing, and sexual renewal. Coming soon to a screen in front of you.

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Special Report #7: How To Use The Healing Power Of Sexual Play

Welcome to the seventh chapter of Tantra At Tahoe's Special Report, the "Top Ten Tantric Secrets Of Sex, Love, & Intimacy." In this article we'll focus on healing, cleansing, and renewing your sexuality.

"When these three things are attained – body purified of repressions, senses freed from dullness, mind liberated from obsessive thinking – a vision arises in you free from all illusion. That is the Tantra Vision." Osho

What's Good For The Goose May Not Be Your Cup Of Tea

Remember the Tantric vision of yourself we presented in chapter 2, "Make Love Not War With Yourself?" Here it is again...

"Tantra believes that our essential make-up is love and that our true nature is blissful. Inside each of us is a spontaneous, joyous, playful, childlike spirit who wants to be free to savor everything and love everyone."

Why don't most of us behave that way if that's our basic nature? Unfortunately, modern Western upbringing doesn't teach us these underlying values of self-love and the enjoyment of life. Instead, we're made unnatural by social conditioning and by moral codes that don't serve our inherent make-up. Often it's religious imprinting that creates huge inhibitions. Growing up is peppered with learning taboos, injunctions, and the multifarious definitions of sin.

All these do's and don'ts produce inner struggles against our basic desires.

New Research Study: Your Own Sexuality

What can we do about our upbringing? Tantra answers: be conscious of who we are and what we want. Recognize which desires spring from our inner beings and which have been impressed on us. Don't resist healthy impulses and thereby inhibit our vital spirit from emerging. Shed the social conventions that bring us down and release the brainwashing that doesn't serve us.

If we follow an impulse that's not part of our essential nature, we learn from these experiments to drop it. If we find great satisfaction in what we pursue, we can only conclude that we've discovered more of our unique sexual truth.

Through this kind of personal experimentation, Tantrikas, those who practice Tantra, do away with guilt, shame, or fear. They learn to recognize their desires, honor their intuition, and trust themselves. They tend to let go of self-imposed restrictions and culturally-limiting boundaries.

We prefer to call this sexual renewal instead of therapy, healing, or problem-solving.

Instead of creating a picture of how we're supposed to be, we operate on the principle that the way out is the way through. We fully confront the joys and stresses that come our way. Above all else, we relax and go with the flow, allowing our innate forces to run their course. We watch and learn and discover that the truth will set us free.

Relationships undergo some of the most dramatic changes through Tantric practice. By rekindling the flame of desire, sexual play becomes intoxicating again. By raising consciousness and sharing more of our feelings, intimacy deepens. By growing individually, partners understand each other better and grow closer in love.

We have lots more to say about awakening relationships in the coming chapter about sacred sex. In the meantime, if you haven't gotten your copy of Dhyan Jeffre's new book yet, Intimacy: A Green Light for Red Hot Sex & A Lifetime of Loving, click here now...

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Don't Run or Hide, Play!

Sometimes, growing in the direction we're seeking isn't all that easy. Tantra wasn't designed as therapy for our sexual hang-ups and limitations, but gladly it often turns out that way.

"Sexual healing…can happen through pleasure and delight much more easily than they can through “'working' on a problem." Margot Anand

When we relax, exercise our erogenous zones, and enjoy our bodies, we often run into the old baggage that blocks our excitement. We discover that old pains, wounds, and trauma are stored in our tissues. Instead of focusing on problems, Tantric practice heals purely through the committed pursuit of pleasure. As we exercise opening our energy channels, we work through any resistance that gets in the way.

We're left cleansed, relaxed, and free.

When you've got a problem, psychologists tell us you've got two basic alternatives: fight or flight. Do battle with your demons or put your head in the sand until they bite you in the ass. The shortcoming of this view is that regardless of your choice, you're being controlled by the problem.

Being about energy, Tantra teaches us a startling clear fact about human dynamics. Energy creates a magnetic field that attracts similar energy. Run towards or away from a problem and your mind is focused on it. So you give it more strength.

Issues In The Tissues

You're probably aware that upsets, disappointments, and other negative emotions can settle in your body. The beauty of Tantric practice is that streaming sexual energy bumps into these issues stored in your tissues. If you keep at it, the magical healing properties of your life force dissolves your blocks, discomforts, and resistances.

Tantra naturally becomes a delightful growth path that isn't problem-focused at all and makes you feel great. In other words, make love and heal thyself.

If there was ever a "have your cake and eat it too" kind of solution to life's challenges, Tantra has got to be it.

One of the best ways to clear negative imprinting is through deep massage coupled with Tantric breathing. Unfortunately, therapeutic massage practitioners are largely prohibited from releasing and rejuvenating the tissues around your sex organs for fear of overstepping their boundaries. Fortunately, we offer Sexual Healing Massage for just this purpose. To sign-up. see

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With graduate degrees and years of private practice in psychology and personal growth, we'd be the first to admit that in some cases the dedicated pursuit of pleasure doesn't work fast enough for everyone. Sometimes, the scars of sexual wounding, trauma, and abuse go so deep that eroding them gradually through Tantric practice isn't practical or enjoyable.

Fortunately, Dhyan Jeffre and Somraj are both trained and experienced in multiple psychological tools that can quickly break you free from the grip of the past. When the old negative energies are released through our Sexual Health Coaching, the pursuit of pleasure through Tantric practice rapidly accelerates. For more details see

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Is It Time To Make A Move?

Wouldn't you rather make love than regurgitate old hurts? That's the spirit of Tantric sexual renewal in a nutshell.

If that seems challenging in your relationship, don't despair. Long-entrenched dynamics can be difficult to unseat. Because we understand, we offer our Tantric Sex Assess Interview to help you determine how to make your sex life a total success.

In this private one–hour telephone conversation with us, we ask a few questions, give a little advice, and create a program of steps to revolutionize your love life. See

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to sign-up. Talk to us, please!. We want to help.

In the next Special Report, we'll journey into the Tantric world of energy and the centers in the body where it's stored, called chakras. You'll learn what you can do inexpensively in private to cleanse, heal, and renew your sexual fires permanently.

Drop us a line if this edition has raised any questions in your mind about sexual renewal. We're look forward to helping you incorporate sacred sexuality into your life. Contact us at...

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Special Report #8: Learn To Play Your Inner Flute & Prevent An Energy Crisis

You've graduated to the eighth chapter of Tantra At Tahoe's Special Report, the "Top Ten Tantric Secrets Of Sex, Love, & Intimacy." This installment is devoted to generating and utilizing sexual energy to its fullest.

"Desire is energy and energy is delight." William Blake

What Energy Crisis? Harness Orgasms

Tantric sex is about mastering energy, the vitality of life. Everything in the physical universe is in motion due to energy flowing. The cells in our bodies, the blood in our veins, the impulses in our nerves all continuously vibrate inside.

In China it's called chi, in India it's called prana, in Japan it's called ki, but it's all energy. We're talking about the same life force that pervades us.

If not for feeling energy moving, how would we become aware of being turned on, angry, nervous, or in love? We feel energetic sensations in our bodies: the heat that spreads in waves, the arousal that raises goose bumps, the tingles and tickles that titillate.

The energy Tantrikas work with is the nervous stimulation and physical excitation that causes these feelings. The strongest energy that most people experience is just before an orgasm. So we often target "orgasmic energy" in our exercises and rituals. But it's all the same electrical and magnetic life force in our bodies.

Tantra teaches heightened awareness of these subtler, finer frequencies. Most people don't notice them because their receivers haven't been tuned to pick them up. That's partly why we delight in exploring our senses of taste, sight, smell, and sound as well as deeper appreciation of sensual touch.

Where Do You Store Your Energies?

Many ancient cultures, particularly in the East, studied our subtle energies and devised methods to gain greater mastery over them. Common to many practices are the "chakras." Chakras are...

Centers or vortices inside the body where subtle energy is generated, collected, and stored.

Most systems identify seven chakras residing from the bottom of the spine to the top of the head. Here is a relatively universal list...

# Chakra Location
1st Perineum Base of spine
2nd Belly 2 inches below navel
3rd Solar Plexus Below breast bone
4th Heart Center of chest
5th Throat Throat
6th Third Eye Forehead
7th Crown Top of head

Though energy is energy, when it's generated or settles in a specific chakra, it feels different. When we talk about orgasmic energy, we're actually referring to vibrations of the sex chakra at the pelvic floor. At the heart, it's the warm embrace of love. In the brain, it fuels higher awareness. At the crown, it connects us to the spiritual plane.

Prescription For Prolonged Peak Experiences

Why should you care about your chakras? There are two main reasons.

First, most love partners want more than just a lust connection at the sex chakra. Merging energy at multiple chakras satisfies them immensely.

If you've read any of the Conversations With God books by Neale Donald Walsch, you'll recognize "God's" position on sacred sex...

"There is nothing...unholy...about a passionate, desire-filled sexual experience...When you respond to one another from...all seven centers at the same time, then you have the peak experience you are looking for."

Second, you can use the invisible channel that connects the chakras, the inner flute, to move orgasmic energy throughout your body.

If you grasped how Tantric sexual renewal works from the previous Special Report, you'll realize that this the key to revitalizing your chakras. Learn to stream sexual life force up and down your inner flute and you'll soon clear all your mental, emotional, and physical blocks in your way of an ecstatic life.

For guys, opening the inner flute is the key to spreading energy away from their genitals so it doesn't explode with ejaculation too soon. If you haven't purchased your copy of Somraj's ultimate solution email book, click here for your copy

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For both men and women, running energy up and down the inner flute is the key to continuous full-body Tantric Orgasms.

Honey, I Love It When You Breath That Way

It goes without saying that if you want to improve your sexual and spiritual life, you've got to experiment with Tantra. And if you want to incorporate Tantric secrets into your lovemaking, you've got to learn to stream sexual energy throughout your body.

One of the most potent ways to speed your progress immensely is by doing Osho's Chakra Breathing Meditation. In this refreshing and stimulating exercise, you breath into each chakra in turn in a unique way. It helps you cleanse your inner flute, energize your chakras, and tune to the subtler frequencies of Tantric Sex.

The Chakra Breathing CD comes with clear directions and dynamic music to guide the action. If you've decided to explore the Tantric path, get your copy of the Chakra Breathing CD right now at

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Fake It Till You Make It

"Passion - the only glory of this human story!"
Edward Kowalchyk, lead singer of LIVE

You're probably keenly aware of many of the things that turn you on. We're betting that most of them are external - things you see or things your partner does to you.

The most dominant lesson of this entire Special Report is exactly opposite...

Harness the internal experience of orgasm and you can turn it into skills to amplify your pleasure and feel more passion.

Consider what happens to your body inside when you approach orgasm You get hot, your metabolism speeds up, and you become totally absorbed in the pleasure. You breath, move, think, and sound different.

Consciously employ these natural reactions and ultimately you can create the feeling of orgasm over and over at will. These are the secret tools of Tantric Sex and Tantric Orgasm. These may seem like simple physical responses, and they are. When you learn to use them on command to get your sexual motor screaming along in high gear, they become powerful tools of passion.

Turn these reactions on and off at will and you too can harness these subtle vibrations - guiding the flows, channeling the energy - which ultimately become powerful tidal waves of ecstasy.

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Streaming For Fun And Profit

Our biology certainly produces lots of sex energy, especially when we're young, healthy, or infatuated with a new love. What happens when you age or get stressed by sickness or life pressures? Then you can't depend on hormones to turn you on and make you high.

You have to master running energy. Learn to generate and channel orgasmic energy and you can reach mind-boggling heights any time you want.

That reminds us of an early session of our teacher's year-long Love and Ecstasy Training. (We've condensed this experience into our Tantric Initiations when you're ready for total immersion in sacred sex.) She was presenting some sexual practice with her flamboyant style. As she graphically described how to channel energy, all of the assistants, sitting cross-legged on either side of her, started vibrating with blissful expressions on their faces.

All she had to do was focus their minds on orgasmic energy and they started streaming those great juices up and down their bodies. We sure wanted to have what they were having.

Where do you channel the energy generate? Why, up your inner flute, my dear. Some of us have an overwhelming abundance of energetic juice in our first chakras, our sex centers at the base of our spines. You know what happens to guys if they let it simmer and boil. Right, it explodes out the end of their pleasure stick accompanied by ejaculation.

Instead, move the energy up to the belly, the solar plexus, the heart, the brain, and above. Then it excites, enlivens, and enriches your whole body. That's what makes magic happen. That's why you came to this party, right?

Who's On First Next?

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We'll help you choose the best and fastest route to sexual health and divine passion.

With only two installments of your Special Report to go, it's about time we addressed the real story behind Tantra. In other terms, what is sacred sexuality and how can you merge sex with spirit?

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Special Report #9: How Can Something Like Sex Be Sacred?

Welcome to the ninth and most spiritual chapter of Tantra At Tahoe's Special Report, the "Top Ten Tantric Secrets Of Sex, Love, & Intimacy." This episode is all about the sacred aspects of Tantra.

"The fruition of Tantric practice is the union of bliss and emptiness." -------------- Miranda Shaw

Why Do You Call Tantra Sacred Sex?

In many circles, the word Tantra is synonymous with sacred sexuality. How can we make such an outrageous claim?

In part, that's because the original Tantras taught sex as a path to higher consciousness. If you utilize your superabundance of sexual energy as the fuel for growth, then you'll experience our private definition of Tantra, too - the fast track to enlightenment.

Further, Tantric Love Play is a way to bring sexuality into harmony with spirituality, making sexual love a sacrament of sacred union.

In the Art of Tantric Sex, Nitya Lacroix writes: "Tantric Sex is meditative, spontaneous and intimate lovemaking. Through it you learn to prolong the act of making love and to channel, rather than dissipate, potent orgasmic energies moving through you, thereby raising the level of your consciousness."

No, You Don't Have To Go To Tantra Church For Great Sex

If you're religious, you can easily adopt the view that everything on earth - including sex - is God's gift. Your body is a temple that houses your soul. Or if you lean towards the more pagan traditions, the Goddess who is love gave us sex as a reward for honoring spirit. Either way, it's our spiritual imperative to accept this supreme offering and revel in it. Don't you agree?

Tantra teaches that we're all a reflection of higher powers. In our rituals, we always include a namaste´, the traditional Eastern palms together over the heart with a bow. Namaste´ means the divine light within me honors the divine light within you.

We connect lust, love, and life force by making love on multiple levels. Tantra is sacred sex because we merge all our energies inside by connecting the sex, heart, and spirit chakras. And share each with our beloved.

Whatever way you cut it, Tantric Love Play operates on a different plan than pure animal attraction.

Have Tantric Sex, Take A Great Trip

Tantric Orgasm is another captivating aspect of sacred sexuality.

The moment of orgasm is the closest most people come to communion with their inner being and God/Goddess. Tantra teaches that this experience is a brief glimpse into our true spiritual nature: ecstatic in the body, compassionate in the heart, empty in the mind, blissful in the spirit.

In these glimpses of a higher dimension, we enter a timeless void and seem to become one with the universe. We feel our bodies, minds, and spirits merging with our beloved. We enter an altered state of awareness.

In this rapture, it seems as if our physical limitations disappear and we float with all boundaries dissolved. Suddenly we're open to flowing pure positive energy from our innate blissful source. We become a conduit for communion between earth and sky, the physical and the spiritual.

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Sex As Meditation, Really?

"You should also know that sitting meditation is not the only kind of meditation there is. There is also...Sexual Meditation." ------- Conversations With God, Book 3

True Tantric Sex is a kind of worship, prayer, and cosmic experience. We often describe it as meditation. Meditation is simply sitting and emptying the mind. Since forcing thoughts away is counter-productive, gurus throughout the ages have developed many techniques to create a deep inner peace filled with stillness.

We call this presence a "no mind" condition.

Tantrikas who cultivate the continuous state of inner orgasm find themselves drawn to this meditative state naturally. To encourage the no-mind condition, Tantric play begins with ritual to prepare the mind and body for complete relaxation. We enter Tantric practice without goals or expectations, surrendering to whatever unfolds. All of this creates the non-resistant mood in which we can consciously summon energy to flow through us.

We might say the Tantric motto is: empty the mind and let sex become a timeless meditation in a state of bliss.

Do I Have To Learn Elaborate Religious Rituals?

If you compare contemporary examples, Tantra isn't an organized religion in any sense. You don't have to maintain a prayer schedule, follow a list of commandments, or purify yourself according to some strict set of standards.

Yet, ritual is a part of Tantra. Why?

In India, traditional Tantrikas spent many years under the guidance of a spiritual teacher and engaged in elaborate yogic rituals to purify the body and master the mind. These practices were intended to awaken the powerful psychic energies through which the adept could enter into higher states of consciousness. When a disciple was deemed ready, he or she partook in sexual rites with a partner.

We don't approach teaching modern Tantric sex in such a rigorous disciplined way. But we do approach Tantric Love Play as if entering a holy temple on the path to liberation of body, mind, and spirit.

Prepare The Space Before You Go For it

We describe Tantric Sex as sacred because we revere it as a gift from God/Goddess. Ritual in Tantra is just a way of honoring of each other as reflections of the divine. We choose to look through the outer shell and see into our own and our beloved's inner beings.

What does ritual include?

• Beautiful clothing that accentuates our sexuality like sarongs and jewelry.

• An altar near our practice area that may contain meaningful statues, pictures of our teachers, power objects like crystals and feathers.

• Cleansing the space with sage or scents, call in the energies we want to invoke, and express gratitude.

• Discussing each others intentions, concerns, and boundaries, always operating with permission.

This kind of ritual is simply our way getting ready to fully appreciate the joys of Tantric Sex. Our Tantric Sex Assess Interview can help you focus on opening the doorway to these higher altered states. To sign-up, click on...

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Sexual Ecstasy Converted Me

When Somraj began learning Tantra, he existed on the extreme masculine side of the spectrum. Ritual was not part of his vocabulary much less experience. But, of course, love is a powerful behavior modifier. While stricken with infatuation with the Tantric pioneer, Dhyan Jeffre, he surrendered to frequent Tantric ritual.

After a few sessions of Tantric ecstasy, the energy itself engineered a conversion. "There wasn't any rote prostration before a jealous deity to placate in these rituals. Rather, they were spontaneous motions which created a reverent mood celebrating love, sex, and the abundant joy of the universe." Ritual made love play feel different - intimate, sacred, better.

Coupled with the eclectic spontaneity of Tantra, there's no right or wrong way to do ritual. You just do what strikes you in the moment keeping in mind some general guidelines.

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and we'll guide you to create the kind of ritual that empowers your intimate play and meditation.

The Beginning Of The End

In your final Special Report to go, we'll really get to the bottom line. Can Tantric love positively affect your whole existence? Is it more than souped up nooky in the confines of your bedroom? Or can it help you live your life with ecstasy?

With one more issue to go, you don't have much time left to give us your reactions to what you're learning about Tantra. As always, let us know how we can best help you. Contact us at...

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Special Report #10: Transforming Your Life With Tantric Love

Welcome to the tenth and final installment of Tantra At Tahoe's Special Report, the "Top Ten Tantric Secrets Of Sex, Love, & Intimacy." This episode is about transforming life with love and living it with gusto through Tantra.

"Life is a verb. Life is not a noun, it is really "living" not "life." It is not love, it is loving. It is not relationship, it is relating. It is not a song, it is singing. It is not a dance, it is dancing. See the difference, savor the difference." Osho

Drug-Free Altered States

Tantra is training to be our natural, blissful, fun-loving, playful selves.

Modern society conditions us to live in our minds. We've lost the ability to simply "be." We need to relearn how to be an empty vessel that lets pleasure in. We need a way that reminds us that our very nature is blissful.

Following the Tantric path opens a whole new dimension of life. We learn more of our underlying identity and get in close touch with our personal truth. By confronting whatever inside blocks we run into, we release old baggage, open without reservation, and free the flow of pure life force.

By practicing pleasure as a discipline, we train ourselves to live the way God/Goddess intended, in ecstatic harmony with the universe.

By extending and expanding the peak of sexual ecstasy, erotic explorers of the past found that the act of love could become a natural vehicle for exploring altered states as well as for deepening intimacy between two loving partners.

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Yin Yang Unite

Tantra teaches you to revere your sexual partner and to transform the act of sex into a sacrament of love. Tantra teaches that lovemaking between a man and woman, when entered into with awareness, is a gateway to both sexual and spiritual ecstasy.

An essential part of understanding Tantra is recognizing the alchemy of blending male and female energies.

Do you remember the Hindu version of yin yang from chapter 2? According to the myth, Shiva and Shakti, the archetypal male and female, created the universe by making love. The union of their energies was needed to create the whole.

Western society artificially separates our masculine and feminine qualities by discouraging the development of both within each of us. You know that men are taught to hide their soft feminine side and women are traditionally encouraged to be submissive and accepting.

Tantra encourages each gender to cultivate the latent energies of the other. If men seek their intrinsic truths on the Tantric path, they'll invariably discover their supple, receptive, sensitive, and vulnerable side, without losing their masculinity.

Women will discover their strong leadership, dynamic initiative, and teaching powers while retaining their femininity. These new qualities add to the strengths consistent with our outer gender which we've already learned to exercise.

So what do you think, do real men eat quiche? Do real women eat bullets? We guess the Tantric answer is to eat whatever floats your cork in the moment.

Real Orgasm Without Faking It

"The real orgasm happens inside you when your inner man and woman meet."
Osho

In this simple quote we find a pervasive definition of true love as well as the ultimate diagnosis of relationship conflict.

Too many of us judge our partners according to some hidden inner picture of the perfect lover. When a man isn't aware of his inner female, he tends to project unconscious standards and requirements on to his partner. And the reverse is true for women.

When we each intimately know our internal opposite gender, our inner male and female can accept, honor, and love each other. Only then can we fully embrace our outer beloved unconditionally.

True love, then, is the authentic merger of our inner man and woman.

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A Ticket To Ride On A Cloud

"If you're not living on the edge, you're taking up too much room." Anonymous

At its essence, Tantra is a path of transformation. We transform ourselves, our sexuality, our life, our relationship. We learn to come from a place of love instead of fear, from gratitude instead of resistance from surrender instead of control. By becoming more natural, we grow towards true spiritual liberation.

Many call Tantra the fast track to enlightenment because we go with the flow, welcoming whatever erupts within us, good and bad. Instead of stuffing emerging forces, we work with what's alive and percolating now.?
Since many of us have repressed sexual urges, this powerful innate force becomes an accelerated doorway to transcendence. Goddess knows, most of us are brimming with so much love and lust that we have an almost unlimited fuel for transformation. Using this powerful life force as a catalyst, we expand, extend, and weave all our energies into a unified whole.

Many ancient texts proclaim the transformative power of moving orgasmic energy even higher, to the throat, brain, third eye behind the eyebrows, and the crown of the head. If you're aiming to utilize Tantra as it was originally envisioned, to raise awareness, it makes total sense to wash the brain with this concentrated life force. More than anything, this is what generates implosive Tantric Orgasms.

When your whole body is vibrating with these waves, you enter the still, empty, timeless void and want to stay there indefinitely.

So What Is Tantric Practice?

Maybe it's clearer now why we say Tantra isn't a set of beliefs or philosophies. It's a path of experience. Without any standard of how we should behave or think, Tantra lets our underlying selves unfold.

Practice is the heart and soul of Tantra.

Tantric practices are exercises and rituals that open energy pathways, heighten sensitivity, and raise awareness. They employ everyday actions like moving, breathing, concentrating, and touching, but with more conscious focus. They're like routines you learn at the gym. Once you master the basic pattern, more and more repetitions develop your intrinsic talent.

To begin with, structured routines are helpful because old mind and body patterns often interfere with your spontaneous evolution. Past experiences, traumas, and fixed ideas of right and wrong create physical blocks which produce resistance to progress. Disciplined exercises are useful at the outset as a defined path to work through mental, emotional, and physical barriers. But structured Tantric practices are only a temporary tool to get you moving on the right track.

The ultimate Tantric technique is spontaneity.

So What Are You Gonna Do About It?

"If one really wants to live life in all its richness, one has to learn to…move from one extreme to another - sometimes making love and sometimes meditating."
Osho

To go further and deeper into yourself, reading, studying, and talking will only take you so far. You've got to engage in routine Tantric practice. Which means you need to make space in your life for Tantra.

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If done regularly, dynamic meditations can help open your energy channels. We'll recommend the best ones for you in your Tantric Sex Assess. For our favorites on CD, click on <http://www.tantraattahoe.com/resources.htm>

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Bye For Now

Once you learn the fundamentals, sex becomes meditation and Tantric lovemaking becomes transformative. When spiritual work becomes pleasurable play, there's no turning back. Then why would we want to give up what's good for you and feels great? Since we're enjoying our "work" tremendously, there's little doubt that we'll continue and evolve quickly.

We hope you enjoy the journey as much as we do.

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Love and Goddess Speed Your Ecstatic Journey...

Dhyan Jeffre and Somraj

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