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SUBJECT: Explicit Tantric Tips To Supercharge Spiritual Love
Romance To Heat Up Your Nights And Your Days

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"Tantric Sex Tips from Sacred Sexual Secrets Newsletter" 11/24/04
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Published by Dhyan Somraj Pokras & Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees
ISSN 1540-8825 (c) Copyright 2004 by Tantra At Tahoe
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It's the season for giving thanks, especially since tomorrow is the big
turkey day here in the U.S., Thanksgiving. We're about to give major
thanks when we upload our new ebook, "Supreme Bliss Tantra Guide To The Ecstasy Of Spiritual Sex," in the next day or
two. We'll be offering our clients and readers big discounts so watch
closely for our next issue.

A major theme of the melding of love, sex, and spirit in Tantra is
gratitude. In fact, we have several sections and exercises about it in
our new ebook. At this time of year, we want to focus your attention on
how relationships add to your lives. And how you can make them
stronger. So let's start looking at differences we can bridge.

The old cliché goes something like...

Women Want More Romance & Men Only Want More Sex.

Why do so many men have difficulty understanding why and how
women want romance? Men don't seem to get that affection and
romance are a woman's deepest need and desire.

Similarly, women are challenged and just plain wrong when they think
of men as just wanting sex. Somehow, with this kind of thinking, sex
takes a lesser position. In Supreme Bliss Tantra, we would never want
that to happen where Spiritual Sex becomes a personal development
and relationship growth tool.

Let's put sex, front and center, where it belongs.

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Maybe There's Some Truth There
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Okay, so there's an element of truth to the old adage that women want
romance and men want sex. Why is that so? And what in the world can
you do about it?

Men and women are driven by different hormones, not to mention
different teachings beginning at birth. Women are very fond of words,
thoughts and feelings. Girls actually start talking earlier than men.
Men tend to be drawn to action. Again, this is from a very young age.
Needless to say, this is only a very small part of why men and women
often perceive love, sex and romance so differently. Women pour over
magazines and books while they're teenagers learning the details of
romance and a romantic life.

Male teenagers are much more interested in computers, sports and
sex. Regardless of your age, we bet you can remember your teen years
and the pain and pleasure of dating and coping with the opposite sex.

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The Fountain Of Sexual Plenty
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Once they move past adolescence, most men who have discovered the
fountain of sexual plenty with their beloved Shakti (female partner)
have also discovered the power of romance. Okay guys, maybe it's time
to shed your guy fears and prejudices. After all, if the reward is
unlimited hot sex, it may be worth it. Romance is truly the key to a
woman's heart and thus, her Yoni (her sexual parts).

How can an action-oriented guy understand romance and how to use
it?

Fortunately, Jeffre, the very female half of our love and life
partnership, wrote an easy-to-follow how-to guide about it. In her
playbook named "Hotter Sex, Deeper Love," there's a chapter which describes romance and
tells you, the guy, how to put it into action. (See our discount special
that follows this article.)

Sound like something you'd be willing to invest in? Gals, it will also
give you some tips that you can use, too.

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Here are a few potent tips you can use tonight. In "Hotter Sex, Deeper Love," Jeffre says that romance is...

1. Giving your partner undivided attention. Turn off the TV or
computer and put on your listening cap. Listening is a major way we all
say "I love you."

2. Communicating your feelings of love. Let your partner know how you
feel, often. Show your partner your love in different ways. Smile.

3. Consider your partner's feelings and desires. Okay, so you're number
one. Your partner is number one, also. Receive pleasure through giving.

4. Listening and inquiring demonstrates interest and indicates your
sweetheart is special.

5. Demonstrating your sexual desire lets your partner know in other
ways how special he or she is.

6. Showing your partner that he or she is special to you. Taking the
time to tune in to your honey's differences and unique preferences and
then doing little things that show you care.

7. Doing the spontaneous. Create a surprise.

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Spontaneous & Planned Romantic Gestures
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Romance feels good, but often requires some thought and planning.
Spontaneous gestures can be great and so can those elaborate ones
you've been planning for a while. One of the most romantic gestures
Jeffre has ever received is a love poem. The idea that her beloved
actually sat down and created something just for her bowled her over
and made her very horny too.

Another way to promote romance is by flirting.

If you're single, this is something you probably do frequently. But, if
you're in a long term relationship, when was the last time you flirted
with your partner? Flirting for humans is like a courtship dance for
many animals. It involves all the senses. It's titillating! It's fun! It's
playful!

Learn more about flirting in "Hotter Sex, Deeper Love" and how you can add it to your life.

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Get Out Of Your Own Kaka
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Although no one will probably do these kinds of things 100% of the
time, if you go out of your frequently enough, both of you will feel loved
and adored. You probably noticed that the elements of romance are all
closely intertwined. It's really about getting out of your own kaka,
being playful and thinking about your lover's needs and wants.
Although women are usually considered the ones with the romantic
needs, it's our experience that men also enjoy romantic gestures.

After many years of counseling individuals and couples, Jeffre has
concluded that the most fundamental need of humans is the need to
feel loved.

When we feel loved, we're elevated into a psychological state of well-
being. When we don't feel loved, we often get down on ourselves, feel
despair and lose our interest in sex. If practicing Tantra is your
spiritual practice, that would definitely not be a good thing.

Romance is all about making your partner feel adored. Your reward is
more affection, more joy and more sexual pleasure.

Looking forward to hearing your sweet romantic stories and the hot
steamy sex that they unleashed.

Love, Dhyan Jeffre & Somraj

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