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SUBJECT: Explicit Tantric Sex Tips To Supercharge Spiritual Ecstasy
Show Your Turn-On To Synchronize Your Sex Play

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"Tantric Sex Tips from Sacred Sexual Secrets Newsletter" 9/29/04
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Published by Dhyan Somraj Pokras & Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees
ISSN 1540-8825 (c) Copyright 2004 by Tantra At Tahoe
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Dear Tantric Friends & Lovers...

How do you feel about showing how turned on you are? If you're anything like the average person, you'll probably discover that, at least to some degree, you're somewhat sexually inhibited. It's hard not to get that way in this world that's so conflicted about sex.

Sex is a reproductive necessity, a biological force, a wonderful source of pleasure, a sweet way to demonstrate your love. We think about sex all the time, which the media encourages by using sex to sell. A recent study showed women do so every six seconds, men every three seconds. When you welcome it, it's just about the best kind of fun you can have.

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Have You Internalized The Bum Rap?
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Yet so many people are up in arms against sex. The puritanical right wing, organized religions, people who've been abused and harassed, your parents when they thought you were too young, just to mention a few. In some way, they'll all punish you or put you down if you're too up-front with your sexuality. And there are sexually transmitted diseases to worry about. Has any of this caused you to internalize the bum rap that sex is bad?

Most of us grew up in this world that's so confused about sex. We're not taught about sexual pleasure, lovemaking skills, or the link between sex and spirit. We get programmed with all sorts of conflicting beliefs, silly ideas, and false taboos. Because it's not valued and honored, we're not open about it, we don't talk about it, and we stuff all our feelings. Repression of this insatiable part of life only forces the abundant energy inside. As a result there are too many sexual predators out there, too much sexual abuse, too much wounding. Even if you've never experience sexual violence, you must have received mixed messages, been judged harshly, and rejected.

So we're shy about talking to those we're attracted to, guilty about playing with ourselves, and awkward at the best of times. Not knowing how everything works and scared about being discovered in the back seat of the car or the living room couch, we rush through what we could otherwise spend hours enjoying.

This conflict creates a problem for many people. They get excited and suppress it. They get aroused but keep it to themselves. They want it but don't admit how turned on they are. They're pressured by intense feelings, but instead stay still and silent. At Tantra At Tahoe we don't share this problem, as our mission in life is to teach everyone to exuberantly celebrate their sexuality as sacred. The thousands of visitors to our website every day confirm that many of you out there in cyber world want to improve your sex life, claim your sexual identity, and make loveplay a spiritual ritual.

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Responding To LovePlay Is Natural
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In this Tantric Sex Tip. we're going to help by guiding you to show your turn-on.

We call a passionate lover who shows their turn-on "responsive." The opposite would be inhibited, cold, or even frigid. We wonder how many lovers have been labeled frigid when actually they were super excited but too "polite" to show it.

Responding to loveplay is natural. When your honey kisses you in just the right way in your favorite places, your body reacts. Blood rushes there, you get hard or wet, and your breathing speeds up. Those are some of your body's instinctual responses.

If you let yourself enjoy those feelings, you're naturally going to show your excitement. Your lover can tell that good things are happening inside if you say things like "yes!", make sounds like "oooooo!", and moan with deep husky breathing. Your movements are a great indicator of your excitement too. Grabbing your sweetheart, rolling your hips, and opening your legs are surefire turn-on signals. A tongue shoved deep into you mouth is a dead giveaway, wouldn't you agree?

Don't hold back. Release your inhibitions. Show your turn-on. It's exciting to let it out. It excites your lover too. Responsiveness creates a verbal or non-verbal feedback cycle which can take you both higher and higher. Sensitive lovers who plug into your visible cues can respond to what you need and want in the moment with little need to talk. But you've got to let it out. You can't depend on the romantic fantasies we've all read about knowing exactly what to do in every sexual moment through ESP, extra sensory perception.

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Synchronized Sex Is Where It's At
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We're urging you to be as responsive as you can be. We understand that you may used to being quiet and still, holding back the flood of passion that's urging you to let go. Little by little, if you open up, you'll find it's worth it. It builds your turn on, encourages your honey, amplifies the sexual energy.

Of course, that's the mainstream of our writing and teaching about Tantric Sex. Whatever summons more sexual energy enhances your excitement, strengthens your orgasms, supercharges your ecstasy. So our primary sales pitch for being responsive is that you'll enjoy your sex life much much more.

This advice applies to Self-Pleasuring as much as it does for partnered sex play. As we began last week and will finish up next week in our full-length newsletter issues, making love with yourself is a wonderful affirmation of life. The more you let it out, the better you feel.

When you're making love with another, being responsive adds a whole new dimension to your encounters. When your playmate asks for something stronger, softer, or different, you naturally concur. When your lover's cues tip you off non-verbally to what's making their pleasure soar, you automatically keep it up and do more. When it's obvious that your mate is close to a big explosion, you can decide more easily to go for it or hold back so you can go longer and higher.

Synchronized sex is where it's at. Responsiveness empowers it.

But when you're in the dark about what's happening inside your honey, your lovemaking dynamics become more solo. You do what worked last time or what you want instead You aren't sure about how to respond, continue, or shift because you can't tell what's creating which feelings. You end up being mentally consumed about giving your honey an orgasm yet you don't know how. That can shift your attention out of your body and into your head. Instead of feeling good, you get anxious and pre-occupied.

When you're out of sync with your baby in bed, sometimes nothing seems to work right.

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Try This Tonight & Let Us Know How You Like It
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Demonstrate your passion. When you're making love, show verbally and non-verbally what you're experiencing in each moment. Give ample signals. Make sounds. Let your breath flow. Move your body.

Moving, breathing, and sounding are a language all their own that requires few if any words. But, of course, we encourage you to use words also to ask for what you want, suggest changes, and compliment what's making you soar.

Our ebooks about pleasuring your sweetheart's G-Spot include specific step-by-step directions to give non-verbal cues and use verbal communication to stay in sync with your lover. At last count we tabulated three talking techniques and six wordless methods. You can find the female version, "Tantric G-Spot Orgasm & Female Ejaculation," here...
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More importantly from a Tantric perspective are the detailed instructions about how to build, tune into, and exchange sexual energy. That's when the real excitement takes off.

We're jazzed to hear how this spices up your love life. Tell us your peak experiences and we'll enter your story in our monthly drawing to win a free ebook. Send us your feedback here...
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We'll be listening the next time you make love. Let us hear your passion all the way from Lake Tahoe, California.

Love, Somraj & Jeffre

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