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Your Newsletter: Intimacy, Truth, & Communication - Part 2
The Key to Spiritual Relationship Growth & The Hottest Sex

"Sacred Sexual Secrets" Newsletter 2/2/05
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Published by Dhyan Somraj Pokras & Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees
ISSN 1540-8825 (c) Copyright 2004 by Tantra At Tahoe
http://www.TantraAtTahoe.com (530) 587-1317
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This free ezine offers practical sex tips derived from the ancient wisdom of Tantra & the Kama Sutra coupled with modern sex research. We teach Supreme Bliss Tantra which is spiritual sex that helps you deepen relationship intimacy & reach astounding heights of
sexual ecstasy through long-distance learning and hands-on training.
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Dear Tantra Friend:
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The closer we get to the big day, the more excited we get. No, not SuperBowl Sunday (which by the way we're both jazzed about). We mean Valentine's Day, the great celebration of Eros, in whom sex and spirit are forever melded. Our featured article continues our typical no-holds-barred approach to guiding you to ask for more, give more, and get more.

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* Juicy Joke: The Art Gallery
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* Article: Intimacy, Truth, & Communication - Part 2
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Tantric Quote
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- - Sacred Marriage -
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"The sacred marriage between man and woman is therefore the marriage of the divine lovers who live within us, whispering their secret memories of the source beyond space and time." -- JALAJA BONHEIM in "Aphrodite's Daughters"

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Juicy Joke
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- The Art Gallery -

A couple attending an art exhibition at the National Gallery was staring at a portrait that had them completely confused. The painting depicted three very black, totally naked men sitting on a bench. Two of the figures had black penises, but the one in the middle had a pink penis.

The curator of the gallery realized that they were having trouble interpreting the painting and offered his assessment. He went on for nearly half an hour explaining how it depicted the sexual emasculation of African-Americans in a predominantly white patriarchal society. "In fact," he pointed out, "some serious art critics believe that the pink penis also reflects the cultural and sociological oppression experienced by gay men in contemporary society."

After the curator left, an Irishman approached the couple and said, "Would you like to know what the painting is really about?"

"Now why would you claim to be more of an expert than the curator of the gallery?" asked the couple.

"Because I'm the guy who painted it," he replied. "In fact, there are no African-Americans depicted at all. They're just three Irish coal-miners. The guy in the middle went home for lunch.

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- Intimacy, Truth, & Communication: The Key to Spiritual -
- Relationship Growth & The Hottest Sex Imaginable -

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Sex Is Divine Because It Is
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In our last issue we outlined the problem, that is, the difficulty speaking directly and lovingly to your sexual and intimate partner about changes you would like to see in your lovemaking. Now, let's move on to what needs to take place in order for this kind of communication to come more easily and more freely.

From a Tantric point of view, you (that means everyone of you) are a goddess/god, a being of divine proportions with grand freedom. You are fundamentally beautiful and perfect regardless of what you currently think. We are all much too hard on ourselves. Too many of us believe we don't deserve pleasure.

But we do deserve to love ourselves for who we really are! You are worthy of being loved, but it has to start with you. How can someone else love you deeply if you don't believe you deserve it? It begins with self-love.

In a similar vein, because of our divine nature, sexuality is divine, a gift of the cosmos. How could so much pleasure and joy be anything but divine. It is our learned shame and guilt (thank you very much Mom and Dad and our religious institutions) that makes us think otherwise. Once you accept that life is holy and therefore you are holy, sex can be nothing but holy too.

Your challenge is to move into the space of knowing that it is truly okay, and very desired, to talk about this holy act, sex. In a Tantric relationship, we not only honor each other, but we honor our bodies, our pleasure, and ourselves. We each take full responsibility for getting what we want. We accept the mantle, because there's no other workable choice, that our feelings, our thoughts, our judgments, our fears and our behaviors begin and end with at home with us.

When you operate with the belief that nothing is more important than that you feel good, and accept that your beloved is doing the very best they know how to do, then you begin realize that there are no bad guys. There are just a couple of humans trying to figure it out so that each of you gets more of what you want and less of what you don't want.

Keeping your joy as the center of your decision-making nudges you to stay on the Tantric path. You were born a joyful being with total freedom. You have the freedom to choose, always. We're challenging you to be all you can be: spiritually, physically, psychologically, and emotionally. Love big and that starts with you loving you big time.

So Where Do You Start?
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Because we are such glorious beings and are capable of such magnificent pleasure, of course we want to talk about it, share it and get as much as we can from sex. How do we get past so many years of conditioning? Good question. Here are some more ideas to help you ask for what you want and to make sure your beloved partner is getting exactly what they want.

All of our ebooks are jam-packed with exercises designed to get you, step by step, into talking with your beloved about all aspects of the good stuff and the hard stuff. Our last issue featured “Intimacy” which deals with relationships plus our new beginners guide, “Supreme Bliss Tantra”. We know you'll benefit enormously by playing your way through these incredibly informative and useful ebook manuals for couples who want deeper love and hotter sex. Here are some examples.

It's okay to be nervous. Jeffre can still remember vividly when she first talked to her young ex-husband about their sex life in her early twenties. It was excruciating, but it worked out okay and broke the ice. So, start with saying, "I'm really nervous (anxious) about talking about this, but I love you so much and it's so important to me, I just gotta do it." Whew!! You did it.

If you're a guy, she'll melt. If you're a woman, he'll listen attentively. The stage is set. We call this a preface, or creating the foundation, for a meaningful communication. You can add things like, "I've been thinking about this for a long time. I really want to work this out with you. It's my intention never to blame you or make you wrong for something. We're a great team and I know we can work together to create a win-win situation." Those kinds of statements establish the atmosphere of openness you want to create for problem-solving.

When you start off with an atmosphere of working together and not blaming, it's amazing what you can say and what you can accomplish. And especially good when you can feel the results all over, inside and out, in your heart and in your genitals.

The Ball Is In Your Court (Or Maybe In Your Bed)
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Remember, you are totally responsible for you, your feelings, thoughts and actions. Your partner is totally responsible for their feelings, thoughts and actions. Neither of you is wrong. When love is your foundation, miracles can happen. You can learn to ask for oral sex. You can speak about wanting more foreplay. You can suggest new positions for intercourse. You can bring your vibrator into the equation. You can even explore anal play. There's a whole world out there. It's yours for the asking and the telling.

Check your fears at the door and jump into the world of truth, desire, playfulness, wholeness and rapid spiritual growth. We want you to be the lover we know you can be. Most of all, we want you to know the depths of ecstasy that tantrikas have known for thousands of years. Healthy, open sexuality is the key to joy, feelings of well-being, health and vitality.

With great love, Jeffre and Somraj

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- Diesel Fitter -

Sven and Ole worked for the same company and both were laid off, so they went to the unemployment office together.

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elastic onto ladies' cotton panties." The clerk looked up panty stitcher.

Finding it classified as unskilled labor, she gave him $300 a week
unemployment pay.

Sven was asked his occupation. "Diesel fitter," he replied. Since diesel
fitter was a skilled job, the clerk gave Sven $600 a week.

When Ole found out he was furious. He stormed back into the office to
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The clerk explained, "Panty stitchers are unskilled and diesel fitters
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"What skill?" yelled Ole. "I sew the elastic on the panties, Sven just
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Tantric Quote
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- What You Choose -

"Everything depends on what you choose, on what you desire."
-- NEALE DONALD WALSCH in "Tomorrow's God"

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